From Milkyway X-Press
Volume 5 # 1
Difficult Beginnings
Beverly Morgan, IBCLC A mother I worked with several years ago said, "I never expected
it to be so hard! The baby cried whenever I tried to nurse him right
from the first. When I left the hospital, one of the nurses looked at
me and said quietly, Good luck with breastfeeding." this
was the only hint I had that there might be problems ahead."
She spoke of feeling disappointed, disillusioned, and angry that she
had not been better prepared for the possibility of problems. Many people
expect breastfeeding to happen without challenges and are unprepared
if they do. A good rule for the early days is to have a plan in place
if things dont go smoothly. If babies cry at the breast, or refuse
to suckle, or the urine/stool output is not adequate, or they are "sleepy"
at breast, or cause mothers to have nipple trauma, the mother needs
specialized help. A poor start in breastfeeding can result in a poorly
established milk supply and breast refusal for the baby leading to premature
weaning even if the original malfunction resolves in a few days.
Predictors of a Difficult Beginnings: We cant predict with certainty
which babies will have difficulties with feeding, but some situations
suggest we proceed with caution. For example:
- Difficult births
- Babies with restrictions of movement in utero (causing the baby to
have range-of-motion problems or injury)
- Premature baby
- Structural issues for the baby, (e.g.; cleft pallet)
- Medical issues for mother and baby (e.g.; respiratory distress for
baby, thyroid problems for the mother
For this discussion well focus only on birth trauma.
Babys Birth Experience
The surges of labor, like loving hands, massage the baby and prepare
him for his new life. When the birth process goes well the twist and
turns in the birth canal and the contractions prepare him for a change
from a fluid environment to breathing air. This is a journey a baby
is designed to take and in most cases it goes well.
Sometimes a babys body undergoes some stress and strain. His natural
resilience and the bodys own healing mechanism aids in resolving
these issues however, there is often a period of time where the adjustments
havent yet been made. This may take hours, weeks, or even months.
Its during this sensitive time that a baby is first learning to
breastfeed. Think of tying your shoelace with a sore thumb or chewing
when your mouth is numb. Unlike adults who return to doing things in
their former way, newborns havent prior experience to fall back
on. They were sipping amniotic fluid and being fed by their unbiblical
cord before. Birth Position: Think about a baby in the face-down position
in the birth canal, when the back of his head/neck juncture passes under
his mothers pubic bone, the babys head may bend backwards
on his neck. Sometimes this forces the babys head/neck bones to
get stuck. This jamming, or compression, is often maintained after birth
because by ongoing contraction of the soft tissues (muscles etc.) as
the soft tissues remains in a contracted state to offer protective splinting
against further injury. He may cry and struggle when his head is moved
and he may focus on the pain and not be willing to suckle or suckle
ineffectively. Think of the compensations you use when you have
a stiff neck.
First Stage Problems: The time from the beginning of labor to full dilationcan
also present problems. Picture the baby on his waterslide where the
opening of the slide is blocked. He would be stopped and pushed from
behind by the movements of the contractions. If strong contractions
begin without enough cervical dilation, which can happen in induced
birth for example, or when the babys head is not in a favorable
position, or when mothers hips/pelvis is out of alignment, the baby
is forced downward onto the unyielding cervix and pelvic bone. This
head/neck trauma can effect his early experiences of nursing. A good
rule of thumb is that if the birth causes lingering soreness for the
mother it does for the baby too.
Second Stage Problems: The period from full dilatation of the cervix
to birth-- Problems can occur if the labor is too fast and the baby
doesnt have enough time in second stage. If its too slow,
such as when a mother is told to "hold back, dont push because
the doctor is not here." his head and body get squashed as he gets
stuck in one place.
Birth Aids: Forceps and suction can cause distortion of the head, stretching
or compressing the cranium and its contents. Drugs used in labor:
Drugs also have effects on the mother and baby. Mothers sensations
are numbed so she cant help the baby on his journey, For baby,
the difficulties can range from strain or injury from a protracted birth
process, not being alert or excessively sleepy (not helpful when he
should be interested in learning how to suckle) to causing his temperature
to rise, which often puts him on the road of medical workups and takes
him away from his mother. Cesarean Birth: While cesareans may be necessary
they intervene in the normal course of labor. Like a deep-sea-diver
coming out of the watery depths to quickly, the baby is suddenly pulled
from his watery home in an instant. He can experience difficulties as
his body is forced to shift gears with little or no transition time.
The baby missed either misses out on the natural progression of passing
through the birth canal or if the normal delivery has been attempted,
but not successful, the baby may have already experienced the problems
associated with a labor not progressing well.
Resolving the Trauma: Watching the baby carefully for cues can help
a mother choose a comfortable nursing position for her baby, even
if
it is unconventional. Sometimes being careful of the babys
position as he nurses is the only intervention needed. If the difficulties
dont
resolve in a few hours referrals can be made to address the
underlying difficulty. A breastfeeding specialist and other specialist
such as a and craniosacral therapists
(CST), occupational therapists (OT), physical therapists (PT), osteopaths
(DO), chiropractic or massage therapists (depending on what areas were
affected
by the trauma) can help both mother baby resolve birth trauma freeing
them from restrictions that hamper breastfeeding. Preventing The Trauma:
Some difficulties cant be avoided, however there are preventative
measures that can be taken. For example, a woman with back pain during
pregnancy would benefit by seeing therapists as mentioned above to be
sure her hips are in alignment and her pelvis not tilted so the babys
"waterslide" will offer a clear passage.
Taking birth preparation classes such as Bradley or Lamaze, or
Hypnobirth helps a mother learn to use her bodys surges
or contractions to assist the baby in this passage. Active particapation
in labor helps avoid epidurals and other medications that can slow labors
progress and affect the babys ability to suckle affectivity. Arranging
to have a doula (birth assisitant) and/or midwife who remains with the
mother throughout labor also help labor to progress.
When breastfeeding includes difficulties a mother was not prepared for,
and she lacks the resources for resolving them, she may carry grief
and blame for a lifetime. Recognizing the situations that challenge
the baby and having resources for overcoming them can benefit the family
long past the weaning years.
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